Heroes are people who you trust, look up to, admire and want your kids to grow up emulating. As children grow older, they lose sight of the fact that their parents are real heroes, working to help them grow into young adults. Their minds instead wander to athletes, movie stars and musicians who they idolize and seemingly, would do anything to meet. With the recent “tabloid fodder” surrounding Tiger Woods, the definition of hero can now be more clearly defined than ever before.
Tiger Woods is an amazing figure, an icon in the world of sports. He has defined the golf world for over a decade, winning tournaments in a manner which has never been seen before. Changes to his swing, instructors and injuries have failed to derail the “Tiger Express.” Working in the golf industry when he declared “Hello World,” I saw firsthand the change in the sport, for both the good and bad. He brought new faces and people into the game that may never have thought of golf as a sport. His popularity and the global marketing of the Tiger Brand brought golf to a new level of popularity. It was suddenly cool to play the game. As his dominance on the PGA Tour grew and endorsement dollars continues to roll in, some wondered if he would join the likes of former greats Muhammed Ali and Jim Brown and take a stand on social issues in the world. To the disappointment of many, he kept to his guns and rarely let the public into his world, his private life.
Over the last few years, TIger has continued creating unbelievable memories for sports fans, seemingly doing the impossible. And his popularity continued to grow by leaps and bounds But on a fateful Thanksgiving night, his world has seemingly come crashing down before our very own eyes. Tiger crashed his car the day after Thanksgiving and the rumors started to fly about what happened. Then, came stories of infidelity, his wife, Elin attacking him with a golf club and the possible use of painkillers and alcohol that night. Most of the stories were reported by tabloids, like the National Enquirer, TMZ and US Weekly. But, the mainstream media soon ran with the story and it became a headline in ever newspaper, magazine and TV show across the country and around the world. His legacy and name was tarnished, possibly forever.
The reporting of the incident has been salacious at best, as the media both new and old gobbled it up immediately. Rumors were reported as fact and outlets wanted to scoop each other and be the first to report each and every breaking piece in the fiasco. And while many took the side of Tiger, saying he has every right to lead his own private life, without the media butting in, the main part of the story has quickly been forgotten. Tiger’s wife and two children are the real victims in this whole ordeal. Whether they stay with him or leave doesn’t matter. They will be scarred, hounded by media and never be able to live this down.
What Charles Barkley said was right: athletes are not role models, no matter how great they are on the field. Many have been given everything from a time when they were young because of their athletic ability. As they go off to college and professional sports, they are continually pampered and adjust to living a lavish lifestyle. But, many times, their demons off the court come front and center for the world to see. Sure, there are athletes that can be treated as role models for their work in the community, charitable donations and their general attitude off the playing field. Those are the ones that know they are blessed and have been give a great opportunity and platform to make a difference in people's lives. But as a whole, I would not classify the professional athlete as someone to look up to. Kids should look up to their parents, or those that raised them. They should look up to firefighters, police officers and veterans of the armed forces who risk their lives everyday to make this a safer place to live in. Friends who give them a helping hand or are there for advice and words of wisdom. Those are the people we should place on those pedestals and see in commercials on our television screens.
Now, the problem becomes, how do we explain this to our kids. Just like when actors get arrested or musicians OD on drugs, it’s a fine line parents have to walk. But that’s what makes them even more heroic; they can say, this is not how you should act as a person. You should really be more like me.
Tiger will be fine. I laugh at the critics who say he will completely quit golf or won’t eclipse Jack Nicklaus’ majors. If anything, this will motivate him to win even more than before, to cement his golfing legacy while his personal life has taken a hit. Michael Jordan went through similar controversies with extramarital affairs, gambling problems, yet still achieved greatness on the court. Ray Lewis was accused of murder, yet won a Super Bowl soon thereafter. Kobe Bryant was accused of rape, but still won MVP’s and a ring. No one is perfect. But let’s as society stop putting these people on a pedestal when we know that all that will happen is being disappointed in one way or another. The role of celebrities should be seen in the light of entertainment; that is what they are here to do and we should enjoy every minute of that. But the hero worship needs to go.
So my advice... look at people that have shaped your life for the good, people that have stood by and watched you grow into the person that you are today. And don't get fooled again by what you see on TV...because it might not always be the truth.



